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    Home » Green Cleaning » Natural Homemade Fabric Softener & Dryer Sheets

    Natural Homemade Fabric Softener & Dryer Sheets

    Published: Aug 21, 2016 · Modified: Apr 12, 2021 by Bren

    Natural homemade fabric softener leaves laundry soft and static free without a chemical film or artificial fragrance. Learn how to make homemade fabric softener dryer sheets. It’s easy and affordable to replace your current fabric softener with a more natural alternative.

    Natural homemade fabric softener leaves your clothes soft and static free without leaving a chemical film and artificial fragrance on your laundry. It’s easy and affordable to replace your current fabric softener with a more natural alternative from BrenDid.comThis post uses affiliate links. They don’t cost you a thing and help us bring you creative projects. Read more in Policies & Disclosures.

    I grew up in a country home with a huge clothes line in the backyard. Laundry time in the spring, summer, and fall meant folding warm, sun-dried laundry infused with the smell of sunshine. Today, like many Americans, I live in a suburban neighborhood with no clothes line but the memory of that ultra-fresh laundry.

    For years I tried to mimic the smell with commercial dryer sheets and liquid fabric softeners. Then I glanced at back of my fabric softener bottle and read Biodegradable Fabric Softening Agents (Cationic).

    What the heck?

    I had no idea what this meant so I did a little digging and  what I found out shocked me. This purposely unspecific phrase is used instead of listing the actual harmful chemical ingredients.

    The Truth About Fabric Softener

    The artificial scents that make laundry smell like mountain streams or fields of flowers contain toxic substances that can harm your health, and pollute the air inside your home.

    These indoor air pollutants or VOCs can cause immediate and long term health problems like asthma, hormone disruption, heart disease, cancer, headaches, eye irritation, congestion, and nausea.

    How Fabric Softener Works

    Commercial fabric softeners leave a slippery film on fabrics that makes it feel soft to the touch. This chemical film makes contact with skin when you wear clothes, sleep on sheets, or dry off with a towel. There are lots of opportunities for your skin to absorb these dangerous chemicals!

    Natural homemade fabric softener leaves your clothes soft and static free without leaving a chemical film and artificial fragrance on your laundry. It’s easy and affordable to replace your current fabric softener with a more natural alternative from BrenDid.com

    Natural Fabric Softeners

    I wanted a safer way to soften laundry and found several easy-to-use, natural alternatives:

    1. Baking soda added to the wash lowers the ph of water in the washing machine. Softening the water helps laundry rinse cleaner and be less stiff. (Baking soda is as an ingredient in my  Natural Homemade Laundry Detergent.)
    2. White vinegar added in the rinse cycle helps to break down the detergent, removes leftover soap residue, and deodorizes the laundry. Add white vinegar during the final rinse cycle (use your fabric softener dispenser or a dispenser ball).
    3. Wool dryer balls placed in the dryer natural soften and reduce static by bouncing and rubbing against the fabric as it dries.
    4. Homemade fabric softener & dryer sheets soften laundry in the washer or dryer. This fabric softener uses vinegar to soften and deodorize with a softening boost from vegetable glycerin.
    • Glycerin is used in lotions and beauty products to moisturize and soften because it is hygroscopic (absorbs moisture from the air). It is a clear thick liquid that is natural by product of soap making.
    • The softener does not use baking soda because it can not be used on dryer sheets and should not be combined with vinegar in homemade cleaners.
    Natural homemade fabric softener leaves your clothes soft and static free without leaving a chemical film and artificial fragrance on your laundry. It’s easy and affordable to replace your current fabric softener with a more natural alternative from BrenDid.com

    Natural Homemade Fabric Softener Recipe

    Ingredients

    • 2 c. White vinegar
    • 2 c. Water
    • 1/8 c. Vegetable glycerin
    • 10-20 drops Essential oil (optional)
    • cotton cloth (for dryer sheets)

    Liquid Fabric Softener Directions

    1. Combine white vinegar, water and glycerin in a glass jar. (To make liquid fabric softener mix together in a vinegar jug, it’s easy to pour into the machine.)
    2. Add essential oils, if desired, and stir or shake to combine. My favorite homemade laundry scent combinations are:
    • Zen Spa – 10 drops eucalyptus, 5 drops lavender
    • Floral Dream – 8 drops ylang ylang, 8 drops jasmine

    Dryer Sheet Directions

    1. Add 100% cotton cloths to the fabric softener container. Mine are made from flannel fabric and are approximately 5  x 8 inches. Stitch around the edge to prevent unraveling (this step is cosmetic – you can simply rip up strips of flannel or cotton jersey). Tip – An old 100% cotton t-shirt can be cut up and made into dryer sheets. Make sure it’s 100% cotton.)

    How to Use Homemade Fabric Softener

    • Liquid Fabric Softener – Add ½ cup to the final rinse cycle. Use fabric softener dispenser or a dispenser ball.
    • Fabric Softener Sheets – Remove a fabric sheet from the jar and squeeze so it is not dripping. Add a sheet to the dryer with wet laundry and dry as usual.

    Natural homemade fabric softener leaves your clothes soft and static free without leaving a chemical film and artificial fragrance on your laundry. It’s easy and affordable to replace your current fabric softener with a more natural alternative from BrenDid.com

    More Laundry Softening Tips

    • Use dryer balls (reusable) or clean tennis balls to soften laundry and speed drying.
    • Try placing a ball of aluminum foil in the dryer to reduce static cling.
    • Dry clothes that attract lots of static (synthetic fabrics) until they feel a bit damp then hang to dry completely. This reduces wrinkles and eliminates static cling.

    A Note on  Natural Laundry Scent

    Natural substance cannot not give laundry the huge scent of that come from artificial fragrances made with dangerous chemicals.

    To add a gentle, natural scent you can:

    • Add Essential Oils – Essential oils are natural and safe to use in laundry.
      • EOs used in homemade laundry detergent or liquid fabric softener will scent the laundry room but will mostly wash out with the rinse water.
      • EOs used on homemade dryer sheets or wool dryer balls will very lightly scent laundry.
    • Spritz with Fabric Refresher – Natural fabric refresher is a safe way to give laundry a stronger natural scent.
      • Spray dry laundry while folding.

    The bottom line –> truly clean laundry smells like nothing! I use EOs in my fabric softener to mask the scent of vinegar and make doing laundry more pleasurable. If laundry smells bad out of the machine or dryer you have a problem that is easy to solve with this natural odor removing guide.

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    Reader Interactions

    Comments

    1. Erica Gerard

      July 27, 2021 at 2:00 pm

      Thank you so much for this recipe! I am phasing out fabric softener in my house but loved that Mrs. Myers lemon verbena scent. So I purchased a lemon verbena essential oil and added it to your recipe. Voila!

      If others are interested, the lemon verbena oil is from PipingRock and the 2oz bottle is only $5.99

      Reply
      • Bren

        July 29, 2021 at 7:11 pm

        I hope it smells great! I love lemon verbena scent too!

        Reply
    2. Joan Irwin

      May 29, 2021 at 5:23 am

      What’s the ‘c’ for in the fabric conditioner recipe? Cups?

      Reply
      • Bren

        July 20, 2021 at 9:42 am

        Yes, cups (8 fluid ounces in the U.S.)

        Reply
    3. Miranda

      May 03, 2021 at 10:56 am

      I have read several articles stating that using white vinegar in the washing machine can damage seals and hoses over time Have you had any issues using this homemade laundry softener?

      Reply
      • Bren

        July 20, 2021 at 9:52 am

        I have not had a problem with my washer. Adding it directly to the rinse cycle will avoid your seals and hoses until the vinegar is diluted if you are concerned.

        Reply
    4. Kim

      January 27, 2021 at 1:10 pm

      Is your recommended dose of 1/2cup of your liquid fabric softener for a standard washer size? Should I double it if I have a larger machine?

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 28, 2021 at 12:29 pm

        I use between 1/2 cup fr a normal load to one cup for an extra capacity load. I have a washer that can hold a ton!

        Reply
    5. Cindy Yarghn

      December 11, 2020 at 10:22 am

      But vinegar will ruin rubber seals causing leaks down the road. No one ever tells ya that part. Its not worth the cost of replacing a machine 3 years into its use!

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 28, 2021 at 12:44 pm

        I’ve been using vinegar as my only fabric softener for 8+ years. I have the same washer and dryer and have not had any repairs made to them.

        Reply
        • Annita

          April 08, 2021 at 9:06 pm

          I’ve been using vinegar as a fabric softener also as well as in lieu of rinse aid in my dishwasher with no problems to my dishwasher

          Reply
      • Lana Howard

        February 02, 2021 at 10:25 am

        We’re willing to risk paying astronomical doctor bills due to endocrine disrupting chemicals and respiratory illnesses created by chemicals but not willing to take the risk on our much more affordable washers and dryers.. #Merica

        Reply
    6. Holly

      August 06, 2020 at 7:13 am

      Hi Bren! Thank you so much for these fantastic laundry tips! In recent days, I’ve been trying to reduce the chemical load in our home. This led to my friend introducing me to making our own laundry detergent.

      The problem I have, is that our water is extremely extremely hard. I love the idea of using only a vinegar rinse, but it just does not soften the clothes well at all when paired with our water. I’m trying the hair conditioner method today, but don’t like the added chemicals.

      How well does glycerin work? I’ve been a long time Downy addict and would love to find a natural, safe, and effective softener.

      Sending gratitude for such a great post. ♥️

      Reply
    7. Sissy Lazaropoulou

      June 09, 2020 at 10:34 am

      Hello,Reading this blog made me want to try my hand at making my homemade green cleaning products. Something confuses me though.Since essential oils are not water soluble why is it that you use them in some cleaners like the diy fabric softener? is there sth I’m not getting or is there another solution?
      Thanks,love your work!!👍

      Reply
      • Bren

        July 05, 2020 at 3:59 pm

        Sissy, the essential oils are not necessary but people in the U.S. love scented laundry supplies so I include some essential oils to add pleasure to the laundry routine. You can definitely leave them out and not change the results.

        Reply
      • Stephanie

        May 06, 2021 at 12:00 pm

        Hi there! I just wanted to say that your posts are awesome. You have rally done your research and I truly appreciate it!

        One question…should my containers be air tight? And plastic or glass tops vs metal right? Cause the metal will rust?

        Thanks again!

        Reply
        • Bren

          July 20, 2021 at 9:45 am

          Yes, they should be air tight I have used a mason jar without seeing rust but I generally use glass or plastic (an old vinegar container for example).

          Reply
    8. Sharifa

      May 29, 2020 at 9:23 am

      We are blessed here in South Africa with beautiful weather all year round. I don’t even own a tumble dryer as we call it here. We only ever sun dry our clothes.

      Reply
    9. Patti Johnson

      May 14, 2020 at 2:14 pm

      I love using this fabric softener in my dryer with lavender essential oil. I make up a large batch and keep it in an airtight jar with some cotton cloths added to the jar. I just take a cloth out, squeeze any excess liquid from it and throw it in with my load to be dried.

      Reply
      • Bren

        May 16, 2020 at 2:06 pm

        <3

        Reply
      • Mary Lynn Jones

        October 13, 2020 at 12:01 pm

        Aww

        Reply
    10. Stephanie

      February 09, 2020 at 12:14 pm

      Hi there,
      Any tips on using vinegar when using a front-loading washer? Can’t open the door during the rinse cycle, unfortunately. 🙁
      Thank you!

      Reply
      • Bren

        March 03, 2020 at 10:59 am

        I add my vinegar to my fabric softener compartment. Make sure you have one that empties completely, not one you fill and it dispenses a small amount in each wash. You do not want the vinegar to sit in the machine for a long time. You can also try a Downey ball filled with vinegar. Good luck!

        Reply
    11. Dianne Hovey

      January 27, 2020 at 11:06 am

      Do you have to make a new mixture of fabric softener
      for each load or can you make a large batch a head of time?

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 27, 2020 at 11:25 am

        You can make a large batch!

        Reply
    12. Dave

      December 21, 2019 at 12:07 pm

      Your suggestions and instructions for fabric softening are wonderful! I have a small technical quibble, though. Opposite to what most of us think, baking soda doesn’t lower pH, it raises pH. Acids are low (lemon juice is around 2), while alkalis are high (baking soda is around 9.5). Human blood is neutral, around 7.
      Other than this tiny error, everything else is perfect. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 17, 2020 at 3:18 pm

        Thanks for catching my error, Dave! I write a lot more about pH in my baking soda vs washing soda post.

        Reply
        • Kayla

          February 04, 2020 at 9:47 am

          I would also like to note that the use of any oils added to the dryer, even essential oils, poses a fire risk . I would recommend not using oils in the wash/dry process but rather make a cache for the closet or drawers by dropping EO’s on a cotton bad inside a mesh bag.

          Reply
    13. Jessica

      December 04, 2019 at 12:17 pm

      Will this get rid of the static?

      Reply
      • Bren

        December 17, 2019 at 9:08 am

        It helps cut down on static. To help with static in the winter it is best to dry synthetic fabric (like rayon, polyester, nylon, stretch) separate from natural fabrics (like wool, cotton and linen) and do not over dry.

        Reply
    14. Michelle H

      November 12, 2019 at 8:34 am

      Thanks for your wonderful tips. I have always used vinegar in my wash it is also a great brighter on my whites. Are you on Facebook so we can follow you.

      Reply
      • Bren

        November 15, 2019 at 10:09 am

        Thanks Michelle! You can find me here: https://www.facebook.com/brendidblog/

        Reply
    15. Lisa

      October 09, 2019 at 11:42 am

      Hi Bren. I am wondering if adding oils (which I want to as I feel more natural commercial products don’t leave clothes smelling as nice as I would like) might leave oil stains on clothes as commercial softeners do (which I find impossible to then get out of clothes!). Thanks!

      Reply
      • Bren

        November 15, 2019 at 12:23 pm

        The essential oils are a catch 22, people LOVE their laundry to smell and ask about it all the time. However, most are looking for the huge burst of scent that dangerous chemicals give laundry. Essential oils can add scent to your laundry process/ laundry room and faintly scent laundry but are never going to give the huge scent of manmade chemicals. I use some in my fabric softener to mask the scent of vinegar and make the laundry process more pleasurable. I have never had oil spots on our clothes.

        Reply
        • Janet

          December 21, 2019 at 11:29 pm

          Please avoid using Grapefruit Seed Oil in your wash. I added several drops (it’s antibacterial) mixed with vinegar to the bleach dispenser before starting a load of sheets. It didn’t disperse as it went in and left yellow spots on my sheets. Maybe mixing it with vodka would have been better.

          Reply
          • Bren

            January 17, 2020 at 3:23 pm

            Janet, the grapefruit seed oil needs an emulsifier prior to being added to the wash. Alcohol such as vodka would work well.

            Reply
    16. Ilene

      October 08, 2019 at 2:16 pm

      When I walk outside and can smell laundry going from other people’s houses it burns my eyes! To me it’s pollution! Hate the laundry aisle in the store, too!!

      Reply
    17. Jerrilynne Krambeer Specie

      August 27, 2019 at 8:48 pm

      Hey Bren, I’m a grandma now and am wondering how these will affect my granddaughter’s skin.

      Reply
      • Bren

        September 30, 2019 at 2:17 pm

        With a new little one I would simply use vinegar as my rinse. No need to use EOs on tender skin!

        Reply
    18. Sarah

      August 23, 2019 at 9:26 am

      Would it be safe to use some type of eco friendly/organic sponges? Or should I stick to 100% cotton?

      Reply
      • Bren

        September 30, 2019 at 2:20 pm

        I’ve only tested it with cotton.

        Reply
    19. Scot

      August 16, 2019 at 1:44 pm

      What is the purpose of the glycerin in this recipe? Can I leave it out if it’s not in my pantry?

      Reply
      • Bren

        September 30, 2019 at 3:38 pm

        To soften. You can use plain vinegar if desired.

        Reply
    20. Jennifer

      August 07, 2019 at 1:06 pm

      Hi, can I use liquid castile instead of the glycerin? Are they the same thing?

      Reply
      • Bren

        September 30, 2019 at 4:11 pm

        Do not use Castile soap, you do not want soap in the dryer! Vegetable glycerin is not the same as Castile soap. You can omit the glycerin if desired.

        Reply
    21. Jessie

      August 04, 2019 at 8:44 pm

      Do you just make up new fabric softer for the clothes when the liquid is down enough that it no longer covers the cloths?

      Reply
      • Bren

        September 30, 2019 at 4:13 pm

        Yes

        Reply
    22. Mirelys

      June 13, 2019 at 7:25 am

      This is fabulous! My husband was ironing a shirt and bought a new brand of starch. The minute he sprayed it I started coughing uncontrollably! He had to stop. I have been changing all my cleaning product to natural ones and today I found your blog and it is golden! Thank you.

      Reply
      • Bren

        June 14, 2019 at 7:12 am

        Thanks, Mirelys!

        Reply
    23. Janet G.

      June 02, 2019 at 6:00 pm

      Thanks so much for the fabric softener dryer sheet recipe! How many cloths should I add to the liquid at one time? Do they soak up all of the liquid, or should the fabric sheets “float” in the liquid? Also, do you find that one works better than the other (using as a liquid in the washer vs. fabric sheets in the dryer)? Thank you!

      Reply
      • Bren

        June 14, 2019 at 7:21 am

        Janet, you can add as many as you desire so long as they get wet. I used 10 or 15 then pop them back in as they come out of the dryer.

        Reply
    24. Emily

      May 09, 2019 at 8:03 am

      Hi Bren!

      I was just wondering if you can re-use the dryer cloths? If so, how many times would you put it back in the solution to soak for the next time?

      Thanks! Looking forward to trying these!

      Reply
      • Bren

        May 13, 2019 at 7:29 am

        I’ve been using the same set of cloths for years! You can use them to pieces!

        Reply
    25. Luis

      February 23, 2019 at 12:48 am

      I am a massage therapist student and prefer to use products that are organic and hypoallergenic, especially with allergies on the rise, with all the toxins in practically everything. I would never want a client to have a reaction. As I work with massage gels/lotions/oils, will these (detergent and fabric softener recipes) work for my sometimes oil saturated sheets the same or better?

      I currently use A&H hypoallergenic and would rather make my own. I always add white vinegar, which has made them so much softer and what seems to be brighter in color.

      Reply
      • Bren

        February 23, 2019 at 6:29 pm

        Luis, I’ve never washed oil saturated sheets but the powdered detergent does take jet fuel out of clothes!

        Reply
    26. Mateo Pedersen

      February 07, 2019 at 4:21 am

      We tried white vinegar and our clothes didn’t soften up including the towels. Any suggestions?

      Reply
      • Bren

        February 08, 2019 at 2:47 pm

        Mateo, I use vinegar in the washing machine rinse cycle and wool dryer balls in the dryer. Have you tried wool balls? Dryer balls.

        Reply
    27. Janet

      January 27, 2019 at 3:04 am

      I’m repurposing some old baby wash cloths and they are 80% cotton and 20% polyester. Will they still work for the dryer sheets?

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 27, 2019 at 1:17 pm

        I would try to stick with 100% cotton as the polyester content will add more static to clothes in the dryer and can also release dangerous fumes. Your baby washcloths would make perfect duster cloths or reusable swifter sweepers (in both of those cleaning situtations a bit a static can help attract dust).

        Reply
    28. Peete

      January 17, 2019 at 1:13 pm

      Hi, do the EO’s pose a fire risk when used in the dryer? I’ve been wanting to try your recipe but have read mixed things about this issue.

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 21, 2019 at 1:34 pm

        I haven’t had a problem in my dryer. I can’t promise the same results for everyone! It would depend on how they are used, how much, dryer temp, etc.

        Reply
    29. Tori @ Everday Wholesome

      November 16, 2018 at 8:50 am

      This is my favorite recipe! thank you! I use this recipe and add it to my fabric softener container. I just use dryer balls and essential oils in the dryer. I haven’t tried fabric dryer sheets in a while!

      Reply
      • Bren

        November 18, 2018 at 2:40 pm

        Thanks Tori!

        Reply
    30. Kate

      November 01, 2018 at 6:52 am

      I just made the fabric softener this week and I am so impressed! My clothes come out soft and clean smelling. My husband and I settled on bergamont oil since it was a clean gender neutral scent. Thanks for posting this recipe!

      Reply
      • Bren

        November 01, 2018 at 11:30 am

        Bergamont sounds lovely! Glad the recipe was a hit. 🙂

        Reply
    31. Allie

      October 13, 2018 at 8:02 pm

      I’ve been wanting to try this out but I have concerns. Is the vegetable glycerine flammable or is there anything in it that could potentially damage the dryer?

      Reply
      • Bren

        October 18, 2018 at 12:45 pm

        Allie, glycerin has an ignition temperature of 400°C, a houshold dryer usually heats to 125 to 135 F. I have had no problems using this mix or plain white vinegar in my dryer and washer. You should do whatever you are comfortable doing!

        Reply
    32. Michail

      October 02, 2018 at 11:06 am

      Hi Bren, thank you for the recipes. I am doing research for my degree which is for natural fabric softener and i will ensure that your name will be in my reference and citation. Wish me luck for my research project.

      Reply
      • Bren

        October 03, 2018 at 12:40 pm

        Good luck!

        Reply
    33. Helen

      September 08, 2018 at 2:13 am

      Have you tried using your scented vinegar in this recipe please? Also, probably being super dense here sorry, but we want water to evaporate when we dry it, so why would something that absorbs water from the air be a good extra ingredient? Keeping water in our skin seems a different concept to water in our washing. Thanks again for all the great recipes and info.

      Reply
      • Bren

        September 10, 2018 at 7:48 am

        I have not used my scented vinegar in this recipe. I use plain white vinegar. Glycerin “coats” the laundry the way commercial fabric softeners do to make the fabric feel softer. Hope this helps!

        Reply
    34. Laura

      August 20, 2018 at 8:22 am

      What size container do I need for the powdered laundry soap/detergent recipe? I’m excited to make it this week!

      Reply
      • Bren

        August 20, 2018 at 10:52 am

        I can store a full batch of laundry detergent in an old animal cracker tub that is 10 inches x 8 inches x 8 inches (Costco size). Hope you enjoy the detergent!

        Reply
    35. Leah

      July 22, 2018 at 4:30 pm

      I just used this recipe to make my own liquid fabric softener – washing clothes now and excited to see how it works out. (Well, as excited as I can be about laundry…). Thanks for the info!

      Reply
      • Bren

        July 25, 2018 at 4:14 pm

        Thanks, Leah. Hope you like the results!

        Reply
    36. Alli

      July 08, 2018 at 8:31 am

      No tennis balls in the dryer! They’re full of plastic and chemicals, combined with the heat of the dryer, will leach into your clothes.
      EO’s will wash out in the wash, and neutralize in the heat of the dryer. Use your EO’s to make a body spritz for yourself, so the scent is applied right when you really want it. Kids love to have their own spritzes, too!
      You could also hang DIY natural sachets in the closet, or put in drawers (ex: mesh cloth, dried lavender buds, sprinkled with EO’s of choice).

      Reply
      • Bren

        August 16, 2018 at 10:06 am

        Thanks for the tips. Alli.

        Reply
    37. Allison

      May 26, 2018 at 8:56 am

      If you use dryer balls, clip a couple of safety pins in each one. It discharges the static in the same manner as the ball of tin foil. Don’t use tennis balls, they’re full of synthetics that will leach into your clothes.

      Reply
      • Bren

        May 31, 2018 at 7:49 pm

        Great tip!

        Reply
    38. Steph

      January 25, 2018 at 1:17 am

      Could you post the cost per load please?

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 29, 2018 at 1:44 pm

        Steph, the cost per load depends on the essential oils you use and if you use it in the dryer or washer. The glycerin is about $0.75 a batch, the vinegar is about $0.34 a batch, and the EOs are about $0.20 (using eucalyptus and lavendar) that $1.29 a batch. I use it in the washer which is about 9-10 loads per batch or $0.13 a load. Using dryer sheets makes the solution last much longer so the cost per load would be lower.

        Reply
    39. Kris

      January 18, 2018 at 2:16 am

      New DIY-er here 🙂 I’m sure this is a silly, common sense question, but why must the fabric used for the dryer sheets be 100% cotton? I’ve an old pair of hole-y denim jeans (75% cotton, plus polyester and a smidge of spandex) I’ve been wanting to reuse/upcycle and wasn’t sure why exactly they wouldn’t be appropriate.

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 20, 2018 at 1:33 pm

        Hey Kris! I used 100% cotton for a few reasons: 1) vinegar can break down synthetic fibers, 2) synthetic fibers can make your laundry more static filled, 3) synthetic fibers can melt in the heat of the dryer releasing fumes you wouldn’t want to inhale.

        Reply
    40. Mara

      January 13, 2018 at 8:26 am

      Hey! So happy I found your pin on Pinterest (just signed up for your newsletter as well). Can’t wait to try the fabric softener, and homemade detergent as well. I’ve made my own detergent in the past but have not in more than two years and want to get back to this. I love how you tested the ingredients as well. Last time, I used the standard borax recipe. Thanks so much!

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 14, 2018 at 6:23 pm

        I’m so glad you found the site, Mara! Hope you enjoy the recipes. -Bren 😉

        Reply
    41. Nancy

      December 16, 2017 at 11:45 pm

      Wow! This one really works well. My husband is very reactive to perfumes and I haven’t been able to use fabric softener for a few years now. I really missed it, but he would break out in a rash if I used commercial fabric softener. I finally have good smelling clothes and my husband is feeling fine. 🙂 Thank you SO MUCH for this!!! My clothes smell so fresh (I use orange essential oil)!!!

      Reply
      • Bren

        December 17, 2017 at 7:51 am

        I’m so glad it works for you, Nancy! Do you use it as cloths or in the washing machine?

        Reply
        • Nancy

          January 06, 2018 at 8:50 pm

          Hi again!
          I use both (fabric softener for the wash and the cloths for the dryer). .
          I also just started making your homemade powdered laundry detergent and love it.
          I’m so thankful to have found you. Your recipes are great and I feel good using clean and non toxic products.

          Reply
    42. Jessica

      September 21, 2017 at 5:35 pm

      Can I use apple cider vinegar??

      Reply
      • Bren

        September 25, 2017 at 4:37 pm

        I’ve never used apple cider vinegar so I’m not sure how it would work.

        Reply
    43. Tierra

      August 09, 2017 at 1:58 pm

      How many loads do you usually get out of one batch of the fabric softener?

      Reply
      • Bren

        August 13, 2017 at 5:41 pm

        It depends if it is used as a liquid added to the washer or as dryer cloths. As dryer cloths I get 30-40 loads, as a liquid fabric softener in the wash I get 8-10 loads.

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    44. Luciana

      July 30, 2017 at 7:49 pm

      Hi Bren,
      Thank you very much for recipes and tips. Can I leave the oxyclean out of this recipe?

      Thanks!

      Reply
      • Bren

        August 01, 2017 at 4:26 pm

        Luciana, there is no Oxyclean in the fabric softener…. are you thinking of the DIY laundry detergent?

        Reply
    45. kala

      February 28, 2017 at 9:15 pm

      Hi Bren!
      How long should the cotton cloths soak before adding to the wash? Also, how often should the fabric softener mixture that the cotton cloths are added to be changed out?

      Reply
    46. Toby Maxwell

      January 27, 2017 at 9:59 pm

      I’ve heard that a balled up piece of aluminum foil will cut down on static if that’s a big issue for any of your readers. ????

      Reply
      • Bren

        January 28, 2017 at 6:37 am

        Thanks, Toby! I’ve heard this works great too.

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      • biz888

        April 29, 2018 at 8:08 pm

        Yes, Toby. Aluminum foil ball works very well to remove static. I use it all the time.

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        • Bren

          April 30, 2018 at 9:18 am

          Thanks for sharing your experience!

          Reply
    47. Erika

      January 20, 2017 at 12:23 pm

      Wow, I just did something I almost never do….I just subscribed to your newsletter. I have been scouring Pinterest for natural diy recipes to rid my home of toxins. All of your recipes look great, and you back up your ingredient choices with solid information as to WHY you are using them, and WHY they work. Thank you for that! It is so difficult to sort all of that out on Pinterest. I also wanted to add that it is such a shame that we’ve been brought up to associate the smell of “clean” with toxic, chemical fragrances instead of smelling NOTHING, which is what “clean” actually smells like. We need to retrain ourselves and our children to apprecite more natural smells (such as essential oils!) as appealing instead of the harsh, overpowering commercial scents. This is a total overhaul for my family and I’m glad that I have a new partner to help me tackle this endeavor! Thank you so much for all of your hard work and sharing your wonderful resources with us!

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      • Bren

        January 20, 2017 at 1:23 pm

        Thanks for the kind words, Erika! I am so happy that you found the blog. I agree, it takes some time to retrain yourself (and others) to the real smell of clean. Let me know if you have questions, I’m so glad you are here.

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    48. Sarah

      January 12, 2017 at 12:27 pm

      Hi, I’m wondering if you used distilled white vinegar or white cleaning vinegar for the recipe?

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      • Bren

        January 13, 2017 at 8:46 pm

        Either one will work, Sarah. I use whichever I have on hand. Usually just regular strength. (Regular white vinegar is 5% acidity and cleaning vinegar is 6% acidity.)

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        • Sarah

          January 17, 2017 at 10:38 pm

          Thank you!

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    49. Christine

      January 09, 2017 at 6:49 pm

      I used iin the rinse cycle once & hung the clothes out to dry on the clothes line & they faded. Will this softener cause the clothes to fade if hung out on the line?

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      • Bren

        January 09, 2017 at 8:32 pm

        Christine, I’m sorry you had fading. There is nothing in the softener that should cause fading unless you used a citrus essential oil and it did not rinse out well. What type of oil did you use?

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    50. Hope

      January 06, 2017 at 5:44 pm

      I’m wondering if anyone has any experience using these dryer sheets when also using homemade detergent…the recipes I am looking at include baking soda, and this includes vinegar! That seems like a bad idea…

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      • Bren

        January 06, 2017 at 9:55 pm

        Hope, I use this fabric softener with my homemade laundry detergent. The baking soda is gone before you use the vinegar so there is no problem with interactions.

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    51. Sherry

      September 10, 2016 at 12:36 pm

      For the room or clothes spray can you use rubbing alcohol in place of vodka?

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      • Bren

        September 10, 2016 at 12:52 pm

        I prefer to use vodka instead of rubbing alcohol because vodka is simply water and ethanol. Rubbing alcohol is ethanol, water, acetone, methyl isobutyl ketone, flavoring to make it taste bad and/or artificial coloring and artificial fragrance. I prefer to avoid the additives in rubbing alcohol, especially the artificial fragrance. Plus rubbing alcohol smells bad when sprayed and the vodka is almost odorless allowing the essential oils to be smelled. You can definitely try the rubbing alcohol, but you might not be entirely happy with the results. -Bren

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        • Cp13

          November 05, 2018 at 10:51 am

          Is there a certain brand of vodka u use!

          Reply
          • Bren

            November 05, 2018 at 5:59 pm

            When cleaning I use whatever is cheapest. Right now I am using the Costco store brand.

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    52. Becki

      September 08, 2016 at 5:15 am

      Curious, on the powder/dry laundry soap,how much is to be added for a regular load and an over sized load. I read through and did not see a reference to this. If I missed it-sorry. Thank you

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      • Bren

        September 08, 2016 at 10:57 am

        The Natural Homemade Laundry Detergent uses 1-2 Tbsp per load. I usually use 1 Tbsp, 2 once in a while only for very large or very dirty loads.

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    53. Jana

      August 30, 2016 at 11:11 am

      Could this be used as a hair conditioner as well?

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      • Bren

        August 30, 2016 at 11:20 am

        I have never tried it as a hair conditioner. The contents would not harm you (unless you got it in your eyes), but it act like more of a rinse aid to help wash out the shampoo.

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        • Eve

          September 12, 2022 at 11:16 am

          Hi Bren,

          I’m new to doing eco friendly cleaners..how long can we store your fabcon and liquid detergent recipes?

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          • Bren

            September 28, 2022 at 1:31 pm

            They can be stored for quite some time! I have batches sitting around for 3-6 months with no problem. Make sure to discard if the scent changes or you notice any growth, this is a sign the mixture has gone bad.

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    54. Vickie

      August 23, 2016 at 10:09 am

      Can the dryer sheets be used more than once?

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      • Bren

        August 23, 2016 at 2:32 pm

        Yes! I just pop them back in the jar of mix when they come out of the dryer.

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    55. Michelle

      August 15, 2016 at 10:08 am

      Is the detergent and softener safe for use in HE machines?

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      • Bren

        August 15, 2016 at 10:39 am

        Both are low foaming and can be use in a HE machine. I use them in my HE washer. You can read more in my Natural Homemade Laundry Detergent Question and Answer.

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    56. Kay

      July 04, 2016 at 7:33 pm

      Just came across your site and will be trying your homemade laundry detergent. Where did you purchase the jars in the picture?

      Reply
      • Bren

        July 05, 2016 at 5:29 pm

        I get the jars at Ikea or World Market. You can read more in my Homemade Laundry Detergent Q & A.

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    57. Shannon S

      May 10, 2016 at 12:31 pm

      My husband swears he can still smell the vinegar on the clothes. Sometimes I think he is right. The smell seems stronger on some clothes, others I smell nothing at all. could I be doing something wrong? Perhaps using too much? Or am I just letting him get into my head? lol

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      • Bren

        May 10, 2016 at 8:07 pm

        Are you using the fabric softener in the rinse or in the dryer? You should not be able to smell it at all. Sometimes the more natural scent takes getting used to… especially if you have been using commercial softeners. You can try using less in the dryer or use it in the wash rinse cycle.

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    58. Heidi Nichole

      March 21, 2016 at 10:42 pm

      Why choose Now veg glycerin? On Amazon there were a few others you get way more product for your money. Have you tried any of those?

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      • Bren

        March 21, 2016 at 11:22 pm

        Heidi, any vegetable glycerin will work. I’ve used Now products for a few years and have always had great luck with their quality. I only suggest products I have personally used, but few free to try others.

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    59. Deasha

      March 01, 2016 at 9:20 pm

      Thank you for the quick reply. I’ve been searching for it and have been unable to find it in local stores. I plan to order some but want to start using this recipe ASAP. What is the purpose of the glycerin? Sorry if that’s a silly question, I’m still learning about all the unhealthy chemical we put in and on our bodies.

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      • Bren

        March 02, 2016 at 7:44 am

        The glycerin gives it a bit extra softening power. Vinegar also makes a great fabric softener so together they have a double punch.

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    60. Deasha

      March 01, 2016 at 10:23 am

      Can this be made without the glycerin? Thanks

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      • Bren

        March 01, 2016 at 12:06 pm

        Yes, you can leave out the glycerin.

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    61. jessica

      December 27, 2015 at 11:51 am

      Great idea! Totally gonna try this! Cotton washcloths would work ok as well?

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      • Bren

        December 27, 2015 at 4:58 pm

        Cotton washcloths would work great! If you’re using new ones I would try a light color or white ones to prevent color bleed.

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    62. Brandy Parisi

      December 18, 2015 at 9:36 pm

      I followed your recipe exactly and used the fabric softener as a liquid.as I do not machine dry my clothes. I was quite disappointed as my clothes came out a lot less soft and much more wrinkled than if I used nothing at all. I wonder what I was doing wrong.

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      • Bren

        December 18, 2015 at 10:17 pm

        I am not sure,Brandy. I machine dry my clothes. Perhaps you should try less product? This will not make your laundry as soft as commercial softeners that coat laundry in slippery chemicals.

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    63. Lori

      November 08, 2015 at 6:53 am

      Just wondering, I’m not that up to it with all natural cleaners. Why is yours borax free? I have recently discovered uses for borax, and thought it was a laundry booster! Help me if I’m incorrect! Thanks
      Lori

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      • Bren

        November 08, 2015 at 7:53 am

        Good question, Lori. Borax is actually controversial in green cleaning circles. You can read more about it at MNN. Since it is most dangerous when ingested (it can kill bugs) I leave it out of my dishwasher detergent where residue could be left behind on dishes. The detergent works well without it and the risk is removed.

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        • Tina Parker

          April 18, 2018 at 10:22 am

          I know this has nothing to do with the precious statement. But, is it hard to find the ingredients for the laundry detergent and fabric softener? Will I need to look for an all natural store or ???? I’d like to make and use them, if I can obtain the ingredients. I live between New Orleans, LA and Houma, LA. Houma is a lot easier for me to go shopping. Nee Orleans is somewhat of a challenge. Please advise.

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          • Bren

            April 18, 2018 at 11:52 am

            The ingredients are not hard to find. I buy all my ingredients at a big box store (Target, WalMart, etc) or online. I usually get the Kirk’s soap and essential oils online.

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    64. Chris

      August 11, 2015 at 4:43 pm

      Do these dryer sheets actually cut back on static? I stopped using dryer sheets a few months ago and started using dryer balls, but still battle static cling. I wish I could hang things outside too, we have no clothes line and too many birds! LOL I enjoy the birds though and won’t complain too much about the dirty mess they make on our deck and walks!

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      • Bren

        August 11, 2015 at 5:52 pm

        Chris, these will help with static but not eliminate it completely if you are drying synthetic fabrics. I try to dry those until barely dry or use wool dryer balls. Over drying synthetics does make a static mess. Hope this helps!

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    65. Rhonita

      July 18, 2015 at 11:00 am

      when using these as dryer sheets do you wrong them out first or use them saturated?

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      • Rhonita

        July 18, 2015 at 11:02 am

        I meant wring out the liquid

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        • Bren

          July 18, 2015 at 4:25 pm

          Yes, I wring them out somewhat… Just so they don’t drop across my floor!

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          • Rhonita

            July 18, 2015 at 8:19 pm

            Thank you. I just made these and was wanting to try them out!!

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    66. Felice Morin

      May 27, 2015 at 5:32 pm

      I like the idea of being more aware of what is in our products. I think that’s one of the biggest benefits of home making this. As mentioned, there can be some pretty disturbing ingredients that get put into softeners and detergents. I like the essential oils idea. That’s a great way to add some scent. I think I’m going to use this as a gift! Thanks for sharing!

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      • Bren

        May 27, 2015 at 10:10 pm

        Thanks Felice! I agree, I love making homemade items to control ingredients.

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    67. Molly

      March 10, 2015 at 4:35 pm

      What an odd rule! Obviously those who made that rule have never slept in sheets dried by the sun- they smell so good! Plus, dryers are so bad for the environmenot, probably as bad as the chemicals were all trying to replace. We have relatives in the US and they think I’m a “hippy” for avoiding the dryer 😉

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    68. Molly

      March 10, 2015 at 4:50 am

      Hi! I’m Australian and we dry clothes outdoors in the sun 99 out of 100 times. Even when I use he dryer (which is maybe six times a year and just to finish off towels if they aren’t dry properly) I never use a dryer sheet. On rainy days we hang clothes indoors on a “clothes horse” near the fire or in a well ventilated room. It’s totally worth trying to go without any softeners if you’re up for the challenge!

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      • Bren

        March 10, 2015 at 12:14 pm

        I love drying clothes outdoors,Molly! I grew up doing laundry this way too (my parents live in the country). Unfortunately, in our suburban neighborhood clotheslines aren’t allowed. It’s probably an American homeowners association issue. I dry lots of things on an indoor drying rack but do use my dryer often. I wish I could have a clothesline for energy savings too! Thanks for the great tip!

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    69. Allie

      March 03, 2015 at 10:14 pm

      Do these sheets actually leave your clothes scented when they come out of the dryer? No matter what I do, I can’t get my clothes to be scented. I’ve added a ton of EO’s to the powdered soap recipe AND also to the vinegar rinse. The clothes comes out smelling clean, but not scented. I’ve also added drops of EO to my wool dryer balls, and again, they come out smelling like nothing. Also, the vegetable glyceryn won’t leave any residue behind on the clothes? Oh, and do you just keep reusing the mixture until it runs out?

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      • Bren

        March 03, 2015 at 10:34 pm

        Allie, they will have a very light scent but they will not smell like chemically scented laundry. Unfortunately chemical, man made scents are much stronger than natural scents. I’ve had to come to terms with the fact that less scented is actually better for your health. Now, after several years of using all natural laundry supplies, I can’t stand the heavily scented commercial laundry products! You could spritz your dry laundry with my natural fabric refresher if you want to add scent after drying or in the last few minutes of your dry cycle. No, The small amount of glycerine does not leave a residue. Yes, I keep using the mixture until it runs out. I also sometimes add it to my washer’s fabric softener dispenser. Hope this helps! Bren

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        • Allie

          March 07, 2015 at 9:00 am

          Thanks for responding. I agree, the smell of store bought detergent and fabric sheets makes me gag now. Everyone at home thinks I’m crazy. I’m going to try these sheets today, I bought some cute flannel fabric yesterday (gotta be stylish!). Two more questions: how many sheets do you use in one load? What’s the purpose of the water? I’ve seen other similar recipes without water.

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          • Bren

            March 07, 2015 at 10:02 am

            Allie, I use one or two sheets per load (one for smaller loads, two for big loads). I use water to dilute the mix because I don’t like to place a square of flannel saturated with pure vinegar, glycerine and essential oil on top of my clean clothes in the dryer (just my personal preference). If you are using the mix in the washing machine’s fabric softener dispenser you should be fine adding no water (since it’s mixed with water in the machine). That’s one thing I love about DIY, you can test it out yourself and see how you like it! LOL. You might try making the mix sans water and dry one load with a flannel saturated in the non-water mix (I would recommend testing this on something sturdy like towels or sheets not your fine washables). If you like it, you’re good if not, try adding water. Hope this helps! Bren

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        • ansley

          September 01, 2017 at 8:17 pm

          Is this formula HE safe?

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          • Bren

            September 03, 2017 at 11:41 am

            I use it in my HE washing machine.

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        • Mirriah

          October 14, 2018 at 3:28 pm

          Hi! Can you please tell me why the glycerin is needed.

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          • Bren

            October 18, 2018 at 12:34 pm

            I use it to soften the fabric. Commercial softners leave a coating on the fabric that makes it feel soft. I use glycerin instead. You can also use plain white vinegar, the choice is yours! 🙂

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